Rabbi Bernie Fox
Recite Only a Portion of a
Person’s Praise in His Presence.
These are the chronicles of Noach. Noach was a righteous man. He was faultless in his generation. Noach walked with Hashem. (Beresheit 6:9)
Parshat
Noach opens with a description of the righteousness of Noach. The pasuk
uses three terms to describe Noach. He
was righteous. He was faultless in his
behavior. He followed the Almighty
completely.
Next,
the Torah relates that Noach is selected by Hashem to survive the Deluge and
reestablish humanity. Hashem addresses
Noach and explains the reasons he has been selected. He tells Noach he will be saved because of his
righteousness. In speaking to Noach,
Hashem mentions only one of the terms previously used to describe Noach’s
spiritual perfection.[1]
Our
Sages derive an important lesson from Hashem’s brevity in speaking to
Noach. When praising a person in the
recipient’s presence, we should mention only a portion of the person’s
virtues. In contrast, outside of the
recipient’s presence we should we should freely identify all of the person’s
strengths.[2]
This
is a difficult lesson to understand. We
praise a person in order to communicate our appreciation of the individual’s
positive qualities. We are required to
restrict the breadth of this commendation in the presence of the recipient. It
seems that this restriction prevents us from fully expressing our appreciation.
It would seem that our debt of appreciation would require the most thorough
expression when the recipient is present!
Furthermore,
the Torah places great emphasis on honesty.
When we limit our praise we are less than fully truthful. These questions indicate that some
overriding consideration is present.
What is this consideration?
Torah
Temimah suggests an answer to these questions.
In order to fully appreciate his answer, we must begin by drawing from
personal experience. Try to recall the
last time you were present at a testimonial dinner. Often, the various speakers describe the honoree with countless
superlatives. What goes through your
mind? You may wonder whether the
honoree – a mere mortal – can really embody these many forms of
perfection. You may conclude that the
speakers are engaged in an elaborate process of flattery. The various accolades are not derived from
an honest appraisal of the recipient.
Instead, they are shamelessly designed to impress the honoree. An irony emerges. The overblown praises have the opposite of the desired effect
upon the audience. The audience begins
to wonder where the border lies between reality and exaggeration. The speakers have compromised their credibility. Even the truthful elements of the praise are
suspect.
In a
private conversation, outside of the presence of the recipient, we would not be
inclined to be as suspicious. The
subject of the wonderful appraisal is not present. We conclude that this assessment cannot be designed to
flatter. The recipient is not aware of
the praise bestowed upon him. In this
case, the person addressing us has more credibility. We are more inclined to judge the praise as sincere.
Now,
let us return to the testimonial. How
could the speakers preserve their integrity?
After all, they are charged with the responsibility of extolling the
virtues of the honoree! How can they
discharge this duty without being accused of flattery? This is the issue our Sages are
addressing. The speakers must carefully
remain within the boundaries of credibility.
This requires avoiding exaggeration.
This may even demand that the speakers show some reserve. Through limiting their praise, the speakers
win the trust of the audience. Limited
accolades make a greater impression than overblown praise. This is because the impression of flattery
is avoided. In short, credibility
dictates that the speakers resist identifying every positive quality of the
honoree.
This,
then, is the lesson of our Sages. In
the presence of the recipient, limited praise is more effective. Outside of the presence of the recipient we
are less suspect of flattery. We may be
more liberal in our appraisal.[3]
There
is another possible explanation of our Sages’ message. This explanation requires that we consider
interpersonal relations. We know that
some individuals feel appreciated.
Others feel grossly unappreciated.
What is the reason for these different perceptions? There are many possible explanations. Let us consider one of these.
We all
want to be appreciated. How do we
determine if we are fully appreciated?
This requires an act of personal appraisal. We compare our self-perception to the way in which others see
us. If we conclude that others perceive
all of our fine qualities, we are pleased.
We are satisfied with our friends.
They recognize our positive aspects.
However, what occurs if there is a divergence between our self-appraisal
and the assessment of others? If our self-perception
includes numerous positive aspects that others fail to recognize these virtues,
how will we react? It is likely that
this divergence in perceptions will result in frustration and anger. We will feel that we are not
appreciated. We will ask why others do
not see all of our virtues. It is also
likely we will eventually become angry.
It follows
that person will be happier if he is modest in his self-appraisal. This person will also be more capable of
living in peace with others. How can we
encourage this type of relationship? In
short, can we help assure that the individual’s self-perception will not be
inflated in relation to others’ perception of the individual?
Perhaps,
our Sages are addressing this issue. They are attempting to establish healthy
interpersonal relations. Through
praising an individual more fully in the person’s absence, an important result
occurs. Those hearing the full account
of the person’s virtues will be impressed.
Hopefully, their estimation of the recipient of the praise will be
greater then the recipient’s own estimation of self-worth. The recipient has never heard the full
measure of this praise. Others see, in
the individual, greater virtue then the person perceives in himself. The individual will feel appreciated and
valued by others. Positive
interpersonal relations are fostered.
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Hashem’s Selection of Noach
These are the generations of Noach. Noach was a righteous and perfected man among the people of his generations. Noach went with Hashem. (Beresheit 6:9)
The pasuk specifies that Noach was righteous
“among the people of his generations.”
The Sages agree upon the general intention of this phrase. It implies that Noach’s righteousness must
be evaluated relative to his times.
However,
the Sages dispute the specific message intended by the phrase. Rebbe Shimon ben Lakish interprets the
phrase as amplifying Noach’s greatness.
Noach achieved spiritual excellence despite living during the period
during which human conduct reached its lowest point. Had he lived during a more favorable era, he would have attained
even greater perfection. Rebbe Yochanan
understands the phrase as qualifying Noach’s accomplishment. Noach should be viewed as righteous and
perfected only in comparison to his society.
Were he compared to Avraham, these accolades would be less appropriate.[4]
This dispute
is difficult to understand. It would
seem that there is no actual difference of opinion. The two evaluations represent complementary perspectives. Noach was certainly a very great
person. He rose above the corruption of
his generation. If he had lived in a
more civilized world, there is no doubt he would have attained even greater
heights. It is also true that he did
not achieve the perfection of Avraham.
These two assessments are not mutually exclusive. What is the dispute between the Sages?
It
seems that the dispute does not concern Noach’s character. Instead the dispute focuses on the intent
and message of the pasuk. The passage must be understood in its
context. The Chumash has just related
Hashem’s decision to destroy humanity.
Noach and his family are to be saved from this decree. In our pasuk
the Chumash explains the reason for Noach’s salvation.
Our
Sages are proposing two alternatives for explaining the rescue of Noach. Rebbe Shimon ben Lakish maintains that the pasuk is praising Noach. It stresses his resistance to the corrupt
influence of his society. This
interpretation assumes that that Noach was saved as a consequence of his own
merit. Rebbe Yochanan understands Noach’s
salvation differently. Hashem had decreed
that the Deluge that would destroy humanity.
Afterwards humanity would be reestablished. The reestablishment of humanity required that some people be
spared. Hashem chose those who were the best people of the time. Noach and his
family were chosen for this role. The pasuk explains that they were saved
because they were the best of the generation. They would be the new progenitors
of the human race. It was relative righteousness which saved Noach and his
family.
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The Seven Commandments Are a
Revealed Law for All Humanity
But flesh, when its soul, its blood, is still within it, you shall not eat. (Beresheit 9:4)
This
passage prohibits all descendents of Noach from eating the flesh of an animal
that is still alive. This is one of the seven commandments that G-d gave
Noach's descendants. These commandments were binding on all humankind until the
Revelation at Sinai.
At the
Revelation, G-d gave the Jewish people 613 commandments. However, the seven
commandments that G-d gave to Noach still apply to all those who are not
members of the Jewish nation. Maimonides explains that the reward of eternal
existence is not limited to the Jewish people. Non-Jews who adhere to the seven
commandments G-d gave to Noach also merit eternity.
Maimonides
specifies that mere observance of these seven commandments is inadequate. The
non-Jew must recognize that the commandments are of Divine origin, and revealed
by the Hashem. However, if the commandments are observed merely as a social
contract, because of their rationality, the observance cannot be characterized
as righteous.[5]
Why
does Maimonides insist that recognition of the Divine origin of the
commandments is critical, and that rational derivation insufficient? It seems
that Maimonides maintains that it is not the mere behaviors described by these
commandments that define righteousness. Instead, it is the act of intentionally
conforming to the will of the Creator. A person who observes the commandments
without recognition of their Divine origin does not demonstrate a desire to
serve G-d. Only the individual who recognizes the Divine origin of the
commandments demonstrates this devotion and commitment to Hashem.
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There Will Never Be another Deluge
And the Lord smelled the sweet savour; and
the Lord said in His heart: I will not again curse the ground any more for
man's sake; for the imagination of man's heart is evil from his youth; neither
will I again smite any more every thing living, as I have done. (Beresheit
8:21)
The above passage is one of
the most enigmatic pesukim in the Torah. In order to appreciate the difficulty with this passage, we must
understand its context. Adam’s
descendants developed into a society of complete depravity and corruption. Hashem decided to bring an end to the evil
of humanity. He brought the Deluge upon
the world. Noach and his family were
spared destruction. Noach was commanded
to build an ark. He was to find refuge
for himself and his family in this ark.
He was also commanded to bring into the ark representatives of each
species of animal life. After the
Deluge, these representative pairs of each species would repopulate the earth
with animal life.
In our passage, Hashem makes
a commitment to never again destroy the Earth.
The reason that Hashem states for this commitment is that man’s heart is
evil from birth. This seems like an odd
reason for not again destroying the Earth.
Hashem is just and rewards our righteousness and punishes evil. It seems remarkable that our evil nature
should serve as the reason for our salvation.
Hashem seems to be saying that we will be spared future destruction
because we are evil by nature.
Furthermore, if Hashem will
now spare humanity from further destruction because of the frailty of human
nature, why was the Deluge necessary?
The generation destroyed by the Deluge was also evil by nature. If this failing is a basis for sparing
humanity, why was the generation of the Deluge destroyed? In explaining the destruction of the
generation of the Deluge, the Torah tells us that “And
the Lord saw that the wickedness of man was great in the earth, and that every
imagination of the thoughts of his heart was only evil continually.”[6]
Hashem will destroy humanity because of its proclivity for evil. It seems that the very reason Hashem
provides for destroying the generation of the Deluge emerges in our parasha
as the reason for sparing humanity in the future!
The comments of the
commentaries on this issue only add to the enigma. Nachmanides comments on our passage that Hashem is offering two
reasons for not again destroying humanity.
First, we are evil because Hashem created us with an evil
inclination. Second, as we mature and
gain wisdom, we have the ability to overcome this handicap and achieve
righteousness.[7] Apparently,
Hashem commits Himself to spare future generations because He accepts
responsibility for humanity’s sinfulness.
Wickedness is an inevitable outcome of the nature Hashem created in
humankind. In addition, even though we
have this tendency towards evil, we do have the ability to overcome our nature.
Nachmanides’ comments only
reinforce our questions. It seems that
at least the first of these reasons for sparing future generations should also
have been relevant to the generation destroyed by the Deluge. This generation was also created with a
penchant for evil. If we deserve to be
spared, why did the generation of the Deluge not deserve similar allowances?
In order to understand
Nachmanides’ comments, it is useful to consider two additional problems. First, according to Nachmanides, Hashem’s
second reason for not again destroying humanity is that although we are born
with an inclination towards evil, as we mature and attain wisdom, we have the
ability or potential to overcome our evil tendencies. Observation seems to confirm this contention. We do observe that even children who are
notably undisciplined and rowdy mature into responsible individuals. Yet, it seems that in deciding to destroy
the generation of the Deluge, Hashem concluded that the established behavioral
patterns would not be overcome or outgrown.
The generation of the Deluge was judged to be lost beyond
redemption. If this was possible – for
a generation to become corrupt beyond rescue – why can this same development
not occur after the Deluge?
Only flesh with the life thereof, which is
the blood thereof, shall you not eat. (Beresheit 9:4)
There is a second
problem that should be considered. Immediately,
after noting His decision to spare future generations, Hashem addresses
Noach. In this prophecy, He reveals to
Noach a commandment. Hashem tells Noach
that he and his descendants are forbidden from consuming the flesh of an animal
that is still alive. The animal must
first be put to death. Then, its flesh
can be consumed.[8]
This commandment is one the seven commandments that are given to all of
humanity. According to the Talmud, the
first six of these commandments were given to Adam. These six commandments prohibit idolatry, cursing Hashem, murder,
sexual immorality, robbery, and require the establishment of courts.[9]
There is a
notable difference between the six commandments that were given to Adam and the
seventh that was revealed to Noach. The
first six commandments provide a basic moral and ethical code of behavior. The rationale for each is self-evident. In contrast, the seventh commandment that
was revealed to Noach has a different design.
Sefer HaChinuch explains that cruelty is one of the most destructive
character traits. The Torah forbids us
to eat the flesh from an animal that is still alive because this behavior
reflects and cultivates cruelty within the personality.[10]
It is notable that Sefer HaChinuch does not suggest that the reason for
the commandment is the innate immorality of cruelty towards animals. Instead, he asserts that the activity is
prohibited because of the damage it does to the human personality.
This indicates a
fundamental difference between the first six commandments given to Adam and
this seventh revealed to Noach. The
first six are a description of a basic moral and ethical society. This seventh commandment is designed to
encourage the development of a refined and balanced personality. This objective represents an advancement
beyond the minimal function of the first six commandments.
This raises an
interesting question. Why was Adam not
given any commandments of the type revealed to Noah? Of course, this specific commandment could not have been given to
Adam. He was not permitted to eat the
flesh.[11]
However, why was not some other commandment of this type given to
Adam? Certainly, he too would have
benefited from commandments designed to refine the human personality!
These two
questions indicate that the commandment that Hashem revealed to Noach
represents a new paradigm for the relationship between Hashem and
humankind. Hashem revealed to Adam only
the most basic commandments required to foster a functional society. The laws revealed to Adam did not provide
any means for advancing the society or assuring the wholesomeness of its
members. It was left to Adam and his
descendants to define their mission and to develop the behaviors necessary to
achieve this mission. The concept of
commandments designed to refine and perfect the human personality is absent
from this paradigm.
Humanity failed
to meet this challenge. Left to find
meaning and truth on its own, humanity gradually slipped towards perversion and
depravity. Hashem destroyed this failed
humanity with the Deluge.
The post-Deluge
era represents a new paradigm for the relationship between Hashem and
humanity. Humanity was no longer left
to find its own path. Now, Hashem
revealed Himself to humanity as teacher and guide. He provided a new type of commandment to Noach. With this commandment, Hashem communicated
the necessity of commandments that go beyond creating structure within
society. Humanity needed and received
the first commandment designed to refine the personality and insulate it from
the perversity of the generation of the Deluge. This new paradigm eventually resulted in the revelation of the
Torah to Bnai Yisrael. This revelation
would not have been appropriate within the pre-Deluge paradigm. But once Hashem assumed the rule of teacher,
this revelation became inevitable.
We can now
understand Nachmanides’ comments. Man
was created with an evil inclination and the ability – with the development of
maturity and wisdom – to overcome this tendency. However, before the Deluge, man was required to achieve this
advancement on his own. He was not
given Hashem’s guidance. He was charged
with full responsibility for finding his path.
Although
pre-Deluge humanity had the potential to achieve this advancement, it failed to
meet the challenge. Rather than
advancing towards meaning and truth, society degenerated. In the pre-Deluge paradigm there was no
salvation for humanity. Humanity had
demonstrated that despite its great potential it could not advance itself
without more extensive guidance. This
requisite level of guidance was not part of the pre-Deluge paradigm. The result of these failings of the
generation of the Deluge was its destruction.
The post-Deluge
era represents the establishment of a new paradigm. In this paradigm, it is assumed that man is dominated in youth by
an evil inclination. He can overcome
this proclivity. But humanity cannot
achieve this end on its own. Humanity
is no longer responsible to find its own path without Hashem’s guidance. Humanity will never again be destroyed
because in the new paradigm Hashem will become the faithful teacher of
humanity. He will provide laws and
direction. He will guide humanity down
its path.
In other words,
its proclivity for evil led the generation of the Deluge to its
destruction. This was the only possible
resolution within the pre-Deluge paradigm.
However, this same tendency dictated the establishment of a new
paradigm. This new relationship with
Hashem – as humanity’s teacher – is the salvation of humankind.
[1] Sefer Beresheit 7:1.
[2] Mesechet Eruvin 18b.
[3] Rav Baruch HaLeyve Epstein, Torah Temimah on Sefer Beresheit 6:9.
[4] Mesechet Sanhedrin 108a.
[5] Rabbaynu
Moshe ben Maimon (Rambam / Maimonides) Mishne
Torah, Hilchot Melachim 9:11.
[6] Sefer Beresheit 6:5.
[7] Rabbaynu Moshe ben Nachman
(Ramban / Nachmanides), Commentary on Sefer Beresheit 8:21.
[8] Rabbaynu Shlomo ben Yitzchak (Rashi), Commentary on Sefer Beresheit 9:4.
[9] Mesechet Sanhedrin 56b.
[10] Rav Aharon HaLeyve, Sefer HaChinuch, Mitzvah
452.
[11] Rabbaynu Shlomo ben Yitzchak
(Rashi), Commentary on Sefer Beresheit 1:29.